Monday, August 18, 2008

Never Regret


In this life, there are many unfortunate endings resulted from a simple misunderstanding. Small thing such as a smell of unusual perfume on a husband's clothes can lead to a suspicion that he's having affair .

Sometimes we might be lucky to get the matter clear up quickly . But how many sadness and wounds have been created along the way? Let alone on how many chance we can have to clear up those misunderstandings .

Won't it be better if we think carefully and wisely before we make a decision? At least we won't make a mistake that would make us regret later .
Someone ever said that: "There is such a thing as destiny. But we as a human have choice. Whatever the choice we made, we should not regret and therefore lets choose it carefully".

Let's read the following story:
Long time ago at Alaska, there were a young couple who got married and the wife got pregnant. However, the wife past away from giving labour to a child.
The man then live a very busy life, working and look after his child. No one take care of the child, therefore he trained a dog. That dog was so clever, it listened and took a good care of the child. The dog could even bring a bottle to feed the child.

One day, the owner left and told the dog to look after his child. The owner went to other village and because of heavy snow, he was unable to come back.

The next day when he came back, his dog came and greet him. The owner opened the door and he saw there was blood everywhere. The child could not be seen anywhere. There was blood on the bed and he looked at the dog. It has blood on its mouth.

The owner thought that the dog might have killed the child and he then emotionally took a knife. He then cut down its head which killed the dog instantly.

Then suddenly, there was some voices. He found his child under the bed and there was no wound on him. He was confused and looked at the dog. There was a deep wound on the dog. And beside it, there was a wolf's corpse. On its mouth, there was blood from the dog's corpse. He then immediately realised that his dog had protected his baby from the wolf.

Isn't it sad ? Misunderstanding happens everytime when someone does not understand, when someone is impatient, lack of thinking and can not think from different perspectives. People get misunderstand when they cannot self-reflecting and when they are too emotional .

When misunderstandin happens, people can only think of other's mistakes . Therefore, it gets worse until something regretful happens. In the story, such a terrible event happened as a result of simple misunderstanding between a human and his pet. What else will happen if the misunderstanding is actually involve 2 people?

Life can be tricky sometimes, but at least let us think twice before we act... Talk to that person! No matter how hard it is! Deep breath and encourage yourself!
Nothing is more worst than having too many things that we regret when we grow old...

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